A 1L Goes to the Barrister's Ball (With Mixed Results)


Julia D’Rozario ‘24
New Media Editor


Barrister’s Ball may be the single most hyped event in the academic calendar. My desire to attend a Barrister’s Ball actually pre-dated my desire to be a law student… As someone who didn’t grow up in the US, I have been fetishizing the concept of the traditional American Prom for as long as I can remember. Specifically, I have spent the last twenty-four years manifesting the scenes from She’s All That[1]. I want an absurd promposal. I want to slow dance to ‘Please, Please, Please Let Me Get What I Want’ by The Smiths. I want to cry in the bathroom.[2] I want to be crowned prom queen. All of this to say — I am deeply delusional, and my expectations of Barrister’s Ball were extremely high, and also heavily skewed in favor of rom-com clichés.

Ultimately, Barrister’s Ball was not quite the movie-prom moment I envisioned — BUT — it didn’t end up mattering! It was a wonderful event in its own right. I spent time with my friends. I danced (just a little). I played the big piano in the hallway. I took approximately 50,000 photos. I spilled tequila sunrise on my camera. I visited the open bar just frequently enough that my high heels stopped hurting. Also, I got to wear a gown, and I will gladly accept any and every gown opportunity that presents itself. I wouldn’t change the experience. I sincerely look forward to another night to remember next year![3]

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jkd2dd@virginia.edu


[1] Other notable movies that feed my prom delusions include but are not limited to: Never Been Kissed, 10 Things I Hate About You, Napoleon Dynamite, Twilight, Mean Girls

[2] Manifest with caution!

[3] If you’re reading this, prom-pose to me.